So we will always be there for you and Pete, but it is in your hands as to how we can enjoy your friendship.I know the word on the street is that we are "shunning" - that is not our term, nor is it kind.
We don't take our relationship with you as our cousin lightly.
Dear Cousin,
Thank you for your seemingly kind, albeit confusing letter.
At first I was happy to hear that you will always be there for us and just as you've done with your sister all these years, you won't be shunning us simply because we are not the same religion as you.
But you are the one who can open that door of association by returning to Jehovah. It's our prayer that you do this Lynn. You are a very dear relation of ours.
Then later on you said that you've prayed to Jehovah regarding our religious choices and unless he answers your prayer and causes us to see things the same way you do, the door of association with you will be closed.
This confuses me. If Jehovah doesn't answer your prayer, isn't that an indication that your request was improper and/ or he approves of the choices we have made in regard to our personal relationship with him?
Could it also indicate that you are taking your personal opinions too seriously in this matter and are not leaving things up to him to handle as he sees fit ?
If I were to show up at your place of work and introduce myself as your cousin and showed your co-workers this letter, what would they think of you? Would they be impressed by what you've said to me and be drawn to the Watchtower organization or would they view you as a judgmental self-righteous religious fanatic who is attempting to intervene in his cousins personal relationship with God?
Your actions remind me the harsh way Jesus Disciples (weak immature humans) acted at times in their ministry when Jesus himself (the son of God with real authority), shepherded the flock with loving kindness. Please re-read your letter and ask yourself what the real motive for doing such an unkind thing like that was. Who authorized you to mete out punishment to others on behalf of God? Is your relationship with God and his Holy Spirit so weak that my occasional presence could somehow sway you from your resolve to serve him?
It is my hope that you reconsider what you've said to me but at this point, I view your letter as confirmation that my decision to leave the organization was the right thing to do. I hope you are prepared to answer to Jehovah for that.
Agape'
Your Cousin